MARRIED at First sight contestant Emma Barnes has told how she hasn’t spoken to her ex-husband and co-star Caspar Todd since October.
The 32-year-old revealed that relations finally soured between the pair, after an explosive row two months ago and they haven’t spoken since.
Emma said: “We haven’t spoken since the beginning of October and that was an argument. Since then, we haven’t exchanged a word.”
But Emma, who’d never been in a relationship until her union with Caspar on the show, revealed that she hoped they’d reconcile in the future. She told Ok magazine:
“I’m ready to chat and be friends when he wants to be. If he doesn’t want to, that’s okay. It’s just a shame because I’m not a bad person and we are so lucky to share this experience. I’m hoping time will heal. I think we’ll definitely end up meeting up. I might add him to my Christmas card list as an olive branch.”
Caspar and Emma were matched together by the MAFS UK experts becase they appeared to share similar values and aspirations.
But their relationship hit the rocks almost immediately and Caspar seemed less attracted to Emma after likening her to his twin sister.
As the season played out, Caspar then confessed that he wasn’t feeling “that spark” he was “hoping to feel.”
Then on honeymoon he admitted that he didn’t find her attractive.
When Emma asked her husband: “Do you think I look sexy tonight?” Caspar responded, “No.”
Then by the time the commitment ceremonies rolled around, the relationship deteriorated further, after Caspar, a gardener by trade, accused the producers of f**cking with his life,” by pairing him with Emma as he said:
“I haven’t found her sexy and I have seen some of the same mannerisms with my sister as well. I tried to do it in the nicest way possible and I failed at that. If I lied would that be better.”
After his comments, the shows’ relationship expert stepped in to push Caspar to acknowledge the insensitivity of his comments.
But then their relationship seemed irretirevaibly broken down and they called it quits which left Emma in tears.
She said: “It’s over, my marriage is over. I wanted to come here and and walk down the aisle and walk out hand-in-hand with my husband. It’s such a shame I didn’t get someone to adore me and me adore them.’
But Emma, an investment sales manager, also admitted that she clashed with Caspar as they have very different love languages. Emma said that while’s into “acts of service” and gift giving, these did not resonate so much with her.”
She also added that neither had been in relationship’s before, so they both have disordered attachment styles.
She said: “Caspar and I have never been in relationships, which is quite rare at our age, so we both have a disorganized attachment style, which means we show and exhibit all three of the different attachment styles; anxious, avoidant and secure.